Muhammad Ahsan
Jul 28, 2017 · 2 min read

HOW TO WIN FRIENDS

The question is how to win friends. My uncle who is lawyer in high court and have a number of clients. It is due to his courteously for other people. I saw once he met people first time as he knew them a long time. After that he questioned them about their family background and gave them to speak about what are their problems? And I remembered he passed one hour to listen them. I’m very inspired from my uncle and learned how my uncle shows interests and passion for other people and how he meet them and gives them respect . So if we want to make friend, let’s put ourselves out to do things for other people — things that require time, energy, unselfishness and thoughtfulness. Let’s greet people with animation and enthusiasm. And you can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can it two years by trying to get other people interested in you.

So If you want to win friends then give them respect and give them chance to speak, listen their problems, then try to solve their problems, love them, show sympathy for them, and tell them how much they important for you. If you doing this then you will be able to win people’s heart.

I’m introvert person but I will try to apply above rules in my life and try to win other people’s hearts. And I know how much important that people loves you.

I chatted to my friends, cousins and brother. And talked them about their future plans. And I got a lot of ideas. And knew them better before. So I conclude that if you give chance to people speak then you can better understand them, their feelings, their interests and their problems. And people will feel that you show interest and passion for them.

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