Victims ARE NOT the problem.
Victims are not the problem. Victims are not the problem.
Last week, without knowing anything about my trauma, a yoga teacher looked into my eyes and continued to suggest that “I was attracting it” and attempted to explain it away by claiming that it was somehow my fault, that it is my job to “stop being a victim.”
Ladies and gentlemen, any person could have a gun to their head and be shot because they say no, I won’t let you hurt those I am loyal to, I will not submit I will not surrender.
Steve Jobs got cancer and died from it, and I assure you he was not “asking for it.”
Trump, in prison when he is convicted for all the crimes he is guilty of could be raped at any time, by rapists.
A hurricane could hit Florida and it would not be caused by someone’s aura “allowing them to be victimized”.
Bad things happen to good people and that is a fact. And on the shit side of the spectrum, also, sometimes Justice is never served.
The Romans and Greeks openly ackowledged it: Zeus sent Dike, the Goddess of Justice on Earth to dwell in the stars because mortal men had become too greedy, too vile, too sick to honor the difference between right and wrong.
Hate to burst your bubble all you NEGATIVE IQ enablers, sociopaths, and laissez-faire cunts doing nothing to stop the violence, abuse, and all of its costs.
Let’s be serious here for a second.
Rape is an absence of consent. It is saying no, but having your fundamental rights and needs along with your body violated.
It is not caused by a flaw, it is caused by a person who ignores the law, who does not listen to “NO.”
Rape is caused by rapists. Rape cannot happen when people respect one another’s rights. Rape cannot happen between consenting adults. It takes someone who does not listen, someone who gets off on making another person powerless.
In my experience, the simple truth is that some men listen to no, and others do not.
The victims are not the cause of the fact that some men do not attain consent before acting upon their impulses and sex drives.
And rape is not some invented phantasm either. It even happens in the animal kingdom. No one is making it up.
We have evidence of it.
Some men listen and some do not.
But I need to make the point of how insidious it is that for so many reasons we act like the fact of victimization is the fault of victims.
The earth is not asking to be fucked.
No tree is asking to be cut down.
Jesus fucking Christ!
A car, even if it is parked illegally, is not asking to be jacked.
No victim of gang violence or the daily gun massacres endemic to American culture is “asking to be gunned down.”
People say to me, “stop being a victim.”
That is actually a real thing people have said, multiple times, as if I am the cause of the heinous acts of violence that are written in my flesh.
They say it in a hateful, intolerant, snappy, impatient, selfish way.
They say it, complicit. They say it covering their stupid, sick, assinine ass.
The reason they say it that way is because they have watched, they let it go on.
FUCK ALL THOSE PEOPLE ENABLING THE RAPES, THE VIOLENCE, ENABLING EVIL WHOLESALE. FUCK THEIR PATHETIC NARCISSISM. FUCK HOW FUCKED UP THEIR WILLINGNESS TO HIDE ABUSE, TO COVER IT UP IS. FUCK THEM HAVING THE GALL TO PRETEND THAT VICTIMS ARE THE PROBLEM WHEN IN FACT THEY, THE ENABLERS, THE ASS-COVERING NARCISSISTS, THE AUDACIOUS AND CRIMINALLY INSANE, THE OVERLORDS AND PERSECUTORS, ARE THE PROBLEM.
Fuck all the sex offenders, the rapists, the politicians, the racist, the media, the con artists and the spin doctors, and all the people enabling all the evil, fuck all those people, FUCK THEM.
“The world is a dangerous place to live, not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don’t do anything about it.”
― Albert Einstein
