What Must Stop. Immediately!

Over and over the same bullshit: men and women alike degrade me playing an authoritative macho role.

It is because I am feminine. It is because I can win an argument with almost anyone, without resorting to fallacy. It is because, with few exceptions I can fuck whoever I want.

So mom, dad, sister, brother, family, “friends” all feel it is their job to degrade me because I am powerful, and smart, and nice.

I am a femme queer and this is how people treat you if you are feminine.

Somehow my femininity or vulnerability cause people to feel I am inferior and need to be “put in my place,” forced, denied agency.

Precisely because I can almost without exception fuck whoever I want, men feel it is the law that I have sex with them and coerce and rape and sexually abuse me incessantly. They feel entitled to sex because I am sexy.

But all the degradation and disrespect needs to stop. I know I am a billionfold threat. I know I can dominate and succeed. I know I am strong and fierce and brilliant.

But people somehow think they are entitled to control, dishonor, dominate, disrespect, bully, and constantly insult my intelligence. They feel the right to deny me my agency and my right to make decisions about my life.

They think I am their porcelain doll. A meek, obedient, weak, silent, people pleasing little thing.

They don’t respect the integrality of my consciousness, my body, my mind and they do not treat me like a person.

I AM NOT YOUR FUCKING PROPERTY.

I AM NOT A BIMBO. I AM NOT YOUR DOLL. MY CONSCIOUSNESS IS NOT INFERIOR TO YOURS.

STOP DEGRADING ME WITH YOUR FLAGRANT LIES AND CONTROLLING BEHAVIOR. STOP EMASCULATING ME. STOP DENYING MY AGENCY. STOP TREATING ME LIKE YOUR BITCH. IT IS REALLY, REALLY INSULTING AND I DO NOT DESERVE TO BE TREATED THAT WAY.

Just fyi.