. Dire… lover damn sure won’t. In Shere Hite’s aforementioned study of 3,000 plus women, she found that an inability to orgasm was five times more common in women without a masturbation history. Directed masturbation training is typically how sex therapists treat such women. Sex therapists gi…
…rapists often work with women on learning how to pet their own kitty as a way to facilitate orgasm. According to research, Higher levels of education, lower levels of religious affiliation, and sexual guilt have also been associated with a more orgasmic sex life. A woman’s relationship with her dad counts. Dysfunctional or nonexistent father/daughter relationsh…
This is toxic because it demonstrates a pervasive belief that we can control our partners and that we live under the illusion that by controlling them, we can get them to do what we want or that we can avoid pain. It pretends that our illusion of control has a bearing on reality.