The moment of realisation, not letting tough moments get to you

So, I recently went through a tough time of a long term relationship coming to an end. Yes it’s hard, but what’s even harder is when a person that you connected with, who you shared your heart, opinions, thoughts and most of all, yourself with.. brings you down with words and insult you, with words such as ‘fucking piece of shit’.

That brings your self confidence down, makes you think ‘who am I?’, ‘what’s my worth?’ I feel.. like nothing. Everyone likes to believe that they are worth something, that they are good people. I’ve always strongly believed that I have a good heart and that I can help people to grow their percpectives. All these things I believed in, they’re gone and that is what gets to me.

I’m aware that this is just one event in my life and life is long, we learn and continue to live our lives. The most important thing is to not let these tough moments get to you, but to learn from them, never make the same mistakes again and grow stronger, wiser and better. When that happens and when I no longer make mistakes, that is when I will feel achieved and accomplished with life. Of course, everyone’s definition of ‘mistakes’ in life is different, which is what makes this world so fascinating.I hope everyone can continue growing, improving and learning.

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