First of all, “Boys do not mature”. They don’t. Or only very rarely. Name me one. I lost count too. By the age of 18 I was close to 100. Now a few hundreds would be more accurate, but I traveled a lot. If you want to talk about sober sex. I’d say less then 10. I am not ashamed of it. I live with it and nobody has tried to shame me. If they did. They wouldn’t succeed. Guess that’s what you get for being somewhat attractive. Not to mention that the word gets around. Anyway, this is a silly piece. People should own their shit. End of story. Who cares what others think. I have had the same partner now for nearly 7 years. No outside sex (except one drunken night). Sex under the influence of substances does not count in my book. Can we be clear on that one? I am now 53.