Be transparent. Don’t force someone to read you and to have to use their intuition and gut feelings to see your true intentions. Be exactly who and what you say you are. Don’t waste people’s time and energy by playing games. This time and energy can be spent connecting with someone and providing genuine exchange.
This does not mean blindly trusting and opening up to just anyone. It means mindfully choosing the people in which you share your energy with and allowing that experience to be guided by a loving heart. Sharing how you feel, what’s real, being authentically you may be scary... but every time you hold back truth, you make fear more important than love.
This is why the depth of your ability to love will always be mirrored by your ability to be honest. if you want somebody to talk to, make it clear, if you want a relationship, make it clear, if you want someone’s help just to move on, make it clear. Don’t use someone. Make your intentions clear.
