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There was a time I’d not use the word pussy in my stories or even in conversation. The word was considered vulgar. It almost hurt the ear when spoken.

But not any more. It’s taken on a new life of its own. I’m waiting for the word “Cunt” to be set free. Whadda ya think?

The word pussy is used as a derogatory reference to a woman's vagina, except when calling the family cat.

But most often we would never say, “You have a lovely pussy” to your cousin Rachel who just adopted a tabby. Nope, that never happens because we all agreed the meaning of the word pussy is seldom about a cat.

Even calling a man a pussy is an intended insult. It means he’s weak, not a man. Pussy bad. Man good.

I wish that fucking word had never been uttered on National TV. It clouded the message. The message is not the use of the word pussy. It never was. But it got the most attention. Hell, it’s even inspired hats.

There are men in the world …. (Not your son or husband or dad) who can’t get laid. They are too disgusting. (You’ve met them, you know who they are.) And they resort to other means. Like hookers. Or children. Or extortion. Or rape. They are called predators. If we’re going to use a P word to get our point across, Predator should be it. But it just doesn’t have the same disgusting sound.

I’m not opposed to men paying for sex, in fact I think it’s a fair exchange. I have a pussy and if a man wants to pay cash to rent it — fair enough.

Women have traded their pussy for food, housing, cash, security and love since the beginning of time. Some men consider a woman’s pussy the only thing she has of value. That and all the cooking and cleaning and child bearing stuff that goes along with it.

And often times, some men are so weak and pathetic, they have no power among their own gender. These men often abuse the women in their life. It’s the only time they get to flex their tiny muscles.

These men often hate women. Hate that they need something we have. And are willing to take it by any means. Extortion, rape, etc. (Think the scum bag that owns the used car lot and coerces a blow job from his secretary.) (Okay, maybe she really does enjoy sucking his dick under his desk while he chews on submarine sandwich. Maybe.)

The famous incident that recently took center stage on the news should never have been about the word pussy. It was far more awful. It spoke to the nature of some men. It wasn’t locker room talk. And to continue the debate about the word “Pussy” is to miss the point.

Any man who extorts sexual favors is a preditor. And those who brag about it are genuine assholes. And that’s what got women pissed off. Not the word PUSSY.