Infidelity in Relationships Can Bring Heartbreak and Misery

Zen Lifelong
3 min readMay 3, 2018

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Infidelity is a leading cause of failed relationships in the world today. Infidelity can take many forms. Simply put, however, infidelity is the violation of a set of rules that have been agreed upon by both people in an intimate relationship.

This means that there is a very significant betrayal of trust and loss of faith due to the actions of the offending partner in the relationship.

In most circumstances, infidelity is an act of a partner being unfaithful to their wife, husband, or lover.

It can be sexual or non-sexual in nature.

In a close, intimate relationship, there are normally two distinct areas where infidelity occurs. These are physical intimacy or emotional intimacy. Infidelity does not resolve solely around sexual relations outside of the relationship.

There are also issues with loss of trust, lying, betrayal, and even disloyalty.

Sexual infidelity is the act of act of having sexual relations with someone other than ones partner that they are committed to. In a marriage, sexual infidelity is known as adultery, an affair, or philandery.

In interpersonal relationships that do not involve marriage, acts of infidelity are known as cheating. If a man’s wife commits adultery, the man is then referred to as a cuckold. If a woman has a husband that commits adultery, she becomes known as a cuckqueen.

There are different rules and laws regarding what actually constitute acts of infidelity in a relationship according to different areas of the world and cultural beliefs.

It is also dependent on the particular type of relationship that two people are involved in.

even when a couple is involved in an open relationship, infidelity can happen when the partner involved in a relationship commits acts that are outside of the rules and specifications that were previously set out by both individuals in the relationship.

While there are things that may be acceptable for a particular couple and their individual relationship, these same things may be very unacceptable to other people in similar relationships.

Also, things that may be tolerable for one partner in a relationship may not always be acceptable and tolerable for their partner.

For examples, if you partner is attracted to someone outside of your relationship, but never acts on this attraction, is it infidelity, Is there a type of infidelity that involves an emotional connection, but no physical intimacy, Is a partner that regularly talks online with someone in an intimate manner considered infidelity,

All of these questions do not have a single answer.

The answer can be different for each individual and each specific relationship. This is due to the fact that no two couples are exactly the same. Some couples may be a lot more open and understanding than others.

If a partner has issues with jealousy, they are much more likely to see nearly all types of relationships with individuals outside the relationship as threatening and possible infidelity.

If you are entering into a serious relationship with an individual, you need to spend some time talking with each other. There need to be some ground rules set.

You both need to have a clear understanding of what your limits are and what you will tolerate within the relationship. This is the best way to ensure that your relationship is happy and lasting.

Originally published at Design Your World.

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