Friendship, don’t make it become Relationship

I love making a new friend especially with men. Why? Hence I can go out with them anytime I want and wherever we go they never complain.

But in my society when men are trying to chat or closer with you, it will be ending with relationship, why?

Friend, I tell you something, when I decide to make you my coffee-friend or my travel-mate or just going to hang out,jogging or anything else. Cause I choose you with many reason.

Feel cozy? Certainly, when you go with someone you will choose the right one. Isn’t it?

You will go with someone whom you think that she/he can be your friend to talk to,someone who is open-minded, with him/her you can discuss anything about love,friendship, politics, lesson and sex.

You can invite him/her to join with the other friends. Or you can ask him/her to company you going to travel somewhere.

But why friendship should aim to relationship?

I know that we can’t control whom we falling in love with.

Friend, please take a note.

Do I love you? Yes I do

Do I care about you ? Definitely

Do I always want you? Sure

Am I afraid of losing you? Of course.

But. I love you as a friend, I care about you like sister who always want her brother feel okey. I always want you to accompany me going somewhere. I am afraid of losing someone who mean so much .

For being your girlfriend? Sorry! I can’t and I won’t.

Why?

Because I am not ready for fighting and debate with you. I don’t want to be your habit, I love hang out with many people and I can’t just deal with you.

Yes! I’m not ready for everything that will be opposite with our habit as friend.

I can’t imagine when we start fighting, cheating and hurting each other.

“But relationship is full of romance and affecting, we will give and give”

Yah. For 3 or 4 months it will be like what you said, full of korean drama which hug and kisses.But after that, I should face up the real relationship goes. Jealous, demanding, slanging the door and fucked up.

I’m not ready for that. I’m not ready for losing you as a friend and lover.