Why 90% of People Are Journaling Wrong (And the 5-Step Fix That Actually Works)

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You’ve been sold a lie about journaling.

Somewhere between the $50 “gratitude journals” and the Instagram posts of perfectly color-coded bullet journals, actual journaling got buried under a mountain of aesthetic nonsense.

Here’s what they don’t want you to know: real journaling isn’t about pretty handwriting or daily affirmations. It’s about rewiring your brain’s default programming.

🚨 The Journaling Scam Everyone Falls For

Pinterest Version: Beautiful leather-bound journals, perfect cursive, inspirational quotes, mood trackers with rainbow colors.

Toxic Positivity Version: “Write 3 things you’re grateful for! Manifest your dreams! Good vibes only!”

What Actually Happens: You feel guilty when you miss a day, your problems stay exactly the same, and you quit after two weeks.

The real kicker? You blame yourself instead of the broken system.

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