In a happy family, the one who is rich must be the wife

The happiest look of a family is when dad loves mom, mom loves dad, mom and dad love their children, and then the children learn how to love.

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A Parent Is Born
4 min readFeb 26, 2024

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“What women like is not money, but the feeling of spending money.”

What kills your marriage is not money and poverty, but the sense of security that is constantly being worn away over a long period of time.

You are not afraid of poverty. What you are afraid of is that poverty has no hope and no sense of security.

So you don’t look at how much money a man has, but how much he is willing to spend on you.

Spending money is an important way to prove that a man loves a woman.

I have seen such a short story before and it was very touching.

In a company, there was a man who had very strong business ability and worked harder than others, but he had not been favored by his boss for a long time.

Although he was confused, he firmly believed that gold would always shine.

Until one day, the boss told the truth.

It turns out that this man has always been concerned about work and only thinks about getting ahead. He is devoted to work and never cares about family affairs.

Moreover, he was indifferent to his wife and children. Whether his wife was sick or the children were crying, he turned a blind eye and continued working.

Finally one day, his wife couldn’t bear it anymore and filed for divorce from him.

In order not to delay work, he even agreed to give his children to his wife.
But child support became a problem, so he had a big fight with his wife at the company, completely ignoring his own image.

So you see, how can such a man succeed?

How can a man who can’t even take care of his family be successful in everyone? How can a man who doesn’t care about the wife he shares the same bed with and doesn’t care about her contributions, how can he care about others?

A wife is the main factor in the stability of a family. The quality of a wife can affect three generations. This is not wrong at all.

My aunt is nearly forty this year, but she doesn’t look old at all. You can’t see any traces of time on her body.

Because my uncle never lets my aunt endure hardships, and he is very meticulous in everything in life.

Although they were poor when they first got married, their uncle relied on his own efforts to help them live a high-quality life after marriage.

Although he was exhausted from socializing outside, his uncle would not keep a straight face when he returned home. He would always show his best side to his wife.

Every time during the holidays, I would prepare train tickets in advance for my aunt to go home to visit my parents. I would not hesitate when I saw something my aunt liked. In my uncle’s words:

“I can’t let anyone down if I let her down. It was she who gave me the confidence to persevere when I had nothing.”

The pattern of a man does not lie in whether he can provide you with material life, nor in whether he is good at words, but in ordinary days, he will put his love into action and give you the best in every detail. A gentle side.

No matter how strong a woman is, she is still emotionally fragile.

I’m a sucker for rich people, but if you’re the right person, just eat enough.

A marriage without a sense of security is like a dull knife. Over the long years, it will crush your hope for marriage until it drives you into hell.

Therefore, companionship is the best enrichment for a woman. A strong arm is worth a thousand words.

Only a woman who is pampered will feel confident.

Marriage is more than just daily necessities, it is also an attitude and vision.
A smart man knows how to use “enrichment” as his vision and build a happy family.

After marriage, the passion fades and the color is stripped away. Firewood, rice, oil and salt have become the main theme of life.

In most families, “for the sake of the children” has become the default consensus between husband and wife.

It is true that a child’s future is important. But the mother’s future is more important to the entire family.

Some people say: A good wife brings happiness to three generations.
A wealthy wife is confident and beautiful, and will take good care of the entire family;

A well-fed wife is smart and calm, and will bring up excellent children;
A well-fed wife is generous and kind, which helps her husband’s career to reach a higher level.

Any healthy family revolves around the wife first. Investing too much in your children while underestimating your wife will only lead to an unbalanced family structure.

The mother is the first person responsible for the child. If the mother is unhappy and unhappy, no matter how good the cram school is for the child, it will not be able to remedy the lack of maternal love education.

There is a saying that goes well: The best education in the world is when dad loves mom.

The harmonious relationship between parents will convey correct values ​​and a beautiful outlook on life to their children.

Therefore, men should learn to support their wives. Only in this way will your family be happier and your children will be better.

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