A Sign on the Door
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A Sign on the Door

What Does Dressing ‘Professionally’ Mean?

When you’re someone with boobs or a butt, there is no guidance.

Photo by Madrona Rose ⋒ pinterest strategist + business mentor on Unsplash

I can recall being told my shirt was too low cut for choir practice by one on my peers in high school. She told me that if her double-D breasts could be covered by her high-necked top I had no reason to be showing any cleavage.




A Sign on the Door aims to ignite conversations centering intersectional identities and stories. LGBTQ+, feminist, anti-racist, empowering narratives from anyone wanting to share a little piece of themselves or an example of real-life learning are welcome.

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Jill Fredenburg

Jill Fredenburg

Author of LGBTQ+ Revolution 2.0 & occasional YouTube content creator 🏳️‍🌈 https://linktr.ee/JillFredenburg

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