The Results of My John Kitchener Color and Essence Analysis

Or: How I’m working on being okay with not looking like my sister.

Shaunta Grimes
The Feel Better Project
13 min readFeb 6, 2020

--

My sister, my daughters, and me at the zoo in Guadalajara. I’m pretty sure we’re ALL wearing our good colors here! (Photo: Jill Kelley)

My sister Jill always looks so put together.

She always has, ever since we were kids. She’s only two years younger than I am. It was always Shaunta-and-Jill, almost like we were one person. And we were compared to each other all the time growing up.

We were also compared to our mother, Donna-lynn, and her sister, Alana. Although we are both dark and our mother and aunt were fair, my sister is like our aunt — tall and willowy, remarkably lovely and, like I said, well put together.

And I’m like our mother — not as tall, heavier, plainer. At least, that’s what I heard every time the comparison was made. And it was made so often.

Let’s put it this way.

In the 1960s, Donna-lynn and Alana both worked at Disneyland. Alana was a Carnation girl. She wore a beautiful dress, carried a parasol, her blonde hair fell to her hips, and she greeted people as they walked past the Carnation restaurant on their way to Sleeping Beauty’s Castle.

Donna-lynn worked behind the counter at the pizza restaurant.

--

--

Shaunta Grimes
The Feel Better Project

Learn. Write. Repeat. Visit me at ninjawriters.org. Reach me at shauntagrimes@gmail.com. (My posts may contain affiliate links!)