Innocence Unleashed: Why Adults Yearn for Childlike Joy
The Nostalgic Allure of Innocence
In the words of Mahatma Gandhi, “The greatest lessons in life, if we would but pause and humble ourselves, are not gleaned from the erudite adults, but from the so-called ‘ignorant’ children.”
On reading Jason Edmunds prompt on Innocence, I was reminded of a recent visit from my brother’s two-year-old granddaughter, Trisha, accompanied by her parents and grandparents. Sweet little Trisha had an insatiable curiosity, constantly asking, “Why?” to everything we elders explained to her. Her eagerness to explore and her candidness in declining things she didn’t want were quite remarkable.
As adults, we often second-guess ourselves before declining an offer, concerned about what others might think or feel if we say no. Yet, in Trisha’s case, there was no fear, only an unbridled curiosity and a sense of freedom unburdened by societal norms.
Children possess a pure innocence that most adults have long lost. They embrace their curiosity, ask questions, and entertain novel ideas with humility and wonder. As adults, we tend to refrain from asking questions, fearing it may expose our ignorance or vulnerability.
To truly appreciate the beauty and enchantment of everyday life, we need to adopt a childlike perspective characterized by wonder and inquisitiveness.
The journey of adulthood is often laden with responsibilities, stress, and challenges, making us yearn for the carefree days of our childhood. We find solace in reminiscing about those days when life was simpler and less complicated.
A Story
Allow me to share an inspiring story that underscores the power of children’s innocence:
I came across a heartwarming tale titled “Where is God? A Story on Children’s Innocence,” authored by the EternalValues blog. This story narrates an incident involving the renowned Indian scientist, the late Dr. Hargobind Khorana, and his young son.
Dr. Khorana had, through complex reasoning, convinced his esteemed colleagues that God did not exist. Firm in his belief, he displayed a sign over his front door, declaring, “GOD IS NOWHERE.”
Upon returning from school one day, his little son proudly declared that he could now read sentences. Dr. Khorana seized the opportunity and asked his son to read the statement above the main door. The child studied the words intently and began: “GOD — IS — NOW — HERE…”
Against all odds and contrary to his prior convictions, Dr. Khorana’s beliefs were transformed.
Longing for return to childlike state
May the innocence of children persist and influence humanity as a whole. It is in this innocence that we find several reasons why adults often long for a return to their childlike state:
- An Escape from Stress: Adults grapple with many stressors, ranging from work and financial pressures to familial and personal responsibilities. Embracing childlike innocence offers a brief respite from these burdens.
- A Sense of Wonder: Children possess an innate sense of wonder and curiosity that enables them to see the world with fresh and enthusiastic eyes. Reconnecting with this childlike perspective helps adults appreciate the everyday marvels and magic of life.
- Freedom to Play: Play is a fundamental aspect of childhood, and many adults yearn for the freedom to play without self-consciousness or judgment. Rediscovering the joy of childlike playfulness can be liberating.
- Unfiltered Emotions: Children express their emotions openly and honestly, in stark contrast to the emotional restraint often practiced by adults. Returning to childlike innocence can provide a channel for genuine emotional expression.
- Simplicity: Childhood is characterized by simplicity and a lack of overthinking. Many adults crave the uncomplicated approach to life they once had.
- Reconnecting with Memories: Nostalgia for one’s childhood often prompts adults to seek experiences that evoke cherished memories of youth.
In conclusion, as Berkeley Breathed wisely said, “It’s never too late to have a happy childhood.”
Embracing childlike innocence, curiosity, and wonder can infuse our adult lives with joy and perspective.
Thank you Jason Edmunds for this wonderful prompt and Publication.
