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50 Lessons I’ve Learned in 50 Years
How many resonate with you?
I’ve seen similar lists and you probably have, too. If you’ve read about my first marriage and my childhood friendships, you’ll understand how I’ve learned a number of these lessons. Many of my articles — see links throughout — have been inspired by this list. I originally posted this article on my blog. I’ve since retired the blog but am resurrecting the list. Perhaps you’ll relate to many of these points. Perhaps not. I hope you find them inspirational regardless.
Friendship
1. If your childhood friendships remain healthy, that’s a wonderful blessing. However, don’t hang onto those friendships simply because you’ve known them forever. If those friendships are now unhealthy, consider letting them go.
2. Some friends will remain true throughout your lifetime. However, if someone was a good friend in the past, it doesn’t necessarily mean they are a good friend now. People change.
3. If you need to let friendships go, it will likely feel very strange for a while. You will grieve the loss and maybe even second-guess yourself from time to time as to whether you made the right decision. That’s okay but stick to your convictions. You let those relationships go for a reason. The uncomfortable feelings and the isolation you may feel will…
