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About Me — Alayne (A-lane) Un-ter-ber-ger
It’s phonetic, sometimes I go by “Justicia” and I kiss and tell!
I’ll start by saying that I am grateful that I’ve had the privilege of having lived a life as varied as my interests. I’ve more or less organized my writing into lists here so you can find them. Below, I’m sharing some of the highlights if they seemed like a fit.
My followers know that I’m on a journey post-divorce, which I’ve written about here on Medium pretty frequently. Self-improvement to me is a constant goal but moving target, especially as we age. I AM fighting the aging process with everything I’ve got, FYI.
This isn’t a listicle, just basically seven parts to my uniqueness:
- I kiss and tell. I’m working on a 10-article series of my internet dates. The very last one will be my last okCupid date ever, which ended up becoming my spouse of 4 years, who is now my ex-spouse. Most of these stories are funny. Some are bittersweet. Here are the first two:

