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About Me — Dipaali Ghanshyam Patel
My transformation from surviving as a victim to thriving in victory
No Person is a victim until he believes himself as one.
Being a victim
Since my childhood, I have always viewed myself as an unwitting victim. I was shy, had low self-esteem, was prone to reacting negatively, becoming upset, and occasionally even rebelling. This was because I held the belief that I was unloved, unsupported, unlucky, and unwanted within my own family.
We always talk what we don’t want, expecting that we would get what we want
I was unaware of the things I was ignorant about in my life. I lacked a clear understanding of my desires, and instead, I would often grumble about my life, my parents, and my surroundings in the company of others. I foolishly believed that by complaining about the unwanted people and situations in my life, I would somehow receive pleasure, love, and respect.
Can you imagine what occurred as a result of this mindset?
I started experiencing increasingly negative situations and encountering difficult people in my life simply because I was unaware of the principle that states, “What we focus on…
