About Me — Julie Ann Chanik

I just turned 40. I have two extraordinary kids, well should I say adults? My son Darrien is 21, my daughter Abrea is 20 years old. I wasn’t a great parent. Shall I announce I wasn’t the best mommy! My husband of 18 years went our different way. We were Fire & Gasoline. there was no sugar & spice. Mentally, we tore each other apart. We made each other monsters. If you ask him, he’d say it’s my fault. The truth is it was both of us. I never…