About Me — Lola Down

Lola Down

Hi, I’m Lola Down. I’d like to be clear up some confusion. A lot of people think I’m the author of mysexlifewithlola.com. I am not. I am the muse, star, and hotwife to the literary graphomaniac behind the words, HH.

Now that we’ve cleared that up, allow me to welcome you into our world. Here, HH has written a memoir of sorts — or what he pompously calls a ro·man à clef — about, well, you guessed it, his sex-life with me. He is in his 50s and I am in my 20s. We are madly in love with each other. That should be known from the start. But since he has trouble keeping up with me, if you know what I mean, he lets me play. He calls me a nymphomaniac. I simply say I have a healthy libido. Together we get up to all sorts of sexcapades. He documents them on the blog.

He began the blog because when we began dating, he looked for other men in a similarly demanding position. He found scant material out there. So he decided to take matters into his own hands and create the blog. It caught on in no time and soon we had thousands of readers. In fact, it is rumored that the sudden co-opting of the word “cuck” for political purposes was due to the blog’s influence.

Nowadays, you find all sorts of media out there dedicated to hotwives and the men who love them. From Playboy’s “Swing,” to hardcore porn, wives who take on lovers with or without their men present have become one of the most popular genres of adult entertainment.

Because of the initial success of the blog, book deals soon followed. To date we have five volumes of the best selling erotica books, Match, Cinder & Spark. Volume 1: Nymphomania and the Single Girl. Volume 2: MORE! Volume 3: Writing Under Cover. Volume 4: Sexy Shorts. Volume 5: Shorter Shorts.

Five Books (and counting) and the woman who inspired them all

Then came the audiobooks. The first four volumes are narrated by the incomparable Jupiter Grant.

Following on the popularity of the books and audiobooks, TV deals were in the offing. HBO Max and Netflix both competed for a series of twenty minute episodes, each of which featured the amusing and alluring repartee, as well as at least one steamy sex scene.

And now, a full-length book and movie are in the works, Rogue’s Gallery, due out in November.

If you’re wondering where to start, it really doesn’t matter. You’ll get into the characters, plot, and action faster than most men and women get into my panties. Enjoy!

Just your average nymphomaniac next door. I love fan mail: downloladown@gmail.com

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