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Butterflies Don’t Die With The Right Person
Remember that feeling that comes when you are newly connected with your perfect match. This connection is undeniable as your sparks are sparking everywhere and seamlessly😀. You effortlessly go out of your way to make this special someone happy and to be together. When you see this person you have a rush of excitement, it’s like your stomach is doing flips and your heart is beating fast. It’s a fun and playful feeling, like being on an adventure. You feel very much alive and happy. This feeling can even make you very sure that you want to be with this person for the rest of your life and you end up sealing it. Big congratulations!
Let me tell you, as time passes by, the initial intensity of these ‘butterflies’ may wane leaving you wondering what happened to you or to that spark and at what point you must have lost it. You will recognize that the spark is fading when:
- Physical intimacy feels forced or decreased.
- There is no flow of communication
- You no longer feel your partner’s presence even when he or she is with you.
- You feel more like roommates than lovers.
- You feel unseen, disconnected from your partner.
- You no longer enjoy each other’s company.
