Expectations Hurt — Why Always Me?

Some deep thoughts that need to be shared…

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All of us must have gone through some disappointments in our lives. Whether it’s about relationships, careers, goals, or anything holding our expectations, let us down somewhere.

I am talking about disappointment and expectation at this hour because all I’ve learned from life is that Expectations Hurt. Nobody on Earth is willing to do things according to your expectations. I repeat, Nobody.

Nobody cares about your happiness until their happiness is connected with you. The world is quite selfish to rely on.

I have seen that people only fall for their own pleasures. Someone interacted with you, felt happy, and spent joyful hours with you, which makes you think fantasies are becoming a reality.

This is where expectations are born and continue to increase every second.

Here comes the time to let those delusions finally see the mirror. Once that spark is gone, people will vanish like smoke. They start ignoring you, blaming you for your reaction to their toxic behaviors, and leaving you behind.

So, as I said, your expectations will hurt you. You will deny that people came for their happiness, not yours. They came and ran…