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Give That Man A Chance To Grow
Your husband is not your father
Hi sis! This is not an attack in anyway shape or form, I’m just sharing the 2cent that I have observed throughout the years.
The idea behind a man that has it all together before they get married is just not practical. Men are afraid of getting married before they acquire certain things in life because of the expectations of women. And I know that there are man who will put that standard on themselves but I think we can easen the burden by not adding our own unrealistic expectations. I believe that a man who is getting ready to be married should atleast have a roof over thier heads, not in their mama’s house. They should have a job and be able to keep the job. We should be able to look at a man and see stability, Security and loyalty not just his bank account.
You find that you as a women you are still trying to figure out life yourself yet you expect to meet a guy who is in thier early 30s to have certain type of car, must live in a certain type of place and should have an x amount of savings. This man must have possessions of a 60 year old man in their early 30s. The life it took your dad an x amount of years to build you expect this man to do it in half the time🤔.
That man is not your father, he is your partner whom you are suppose help to get to where your…
