How to Emotionally Detach?

It is very important to learn about detachment.

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Nobody lives with us permanently. I remember when I was a child. My parents were with me always. They took care of me all the time. They taught me many things. I spent with them almost 15 years. Later I joined college, there I lived in the hostel so twice a month I went to my home. I wanted to live with my parents but at that time I was growing up so I needed to do work to feed and help my family so I had to move away from them.

Everyone faces this distance in their life. I had to be strong myself and I controlled my emotions. My parents controlled their emotions too.

Then I made good friends in college. We were the same age so my bond was very strong with them. The last semester we were telling each other that this was our last semester, and we did not know where we would be in the future. But at that time I had many parties with my friends. I had so many memories with them. I didn’t want to leave them but the time has come when we had to separate from each other for managing life. I controlled my emotions and I was emotionally detached.

It was hard to move on in life, but I felt now that was not a big issue.

Then for my career, I came to Canada. I have to detach from my family, relatives, close friends and special…