I’m Skeptical About Love
What am I really afraid of?
I’ve become comfortable with the single life, but I’m worried that I may have become too comfortable.
As much as I’m not against the idea of dating, I have seen a few very good men ending up with horrible women, and I have also seen a few very good women ending up with horrible men. Seeing a good man ending up with a woman just as good as he is, is a rarity in my personal experience.
I’m one of the good guys. In fact, I consider myself as one of the greatest human beings I have ever known, but I’m worried that I may attract a bad woman who pretends to be good to win me over, gain my trust, and fall for her. I mean, how else can you explain how good men end up with the complete opposite?
The thought of being stuck with the wrong person for the rest of my life makes my skin crawl. I’m afraid to fall for the wrong person. My heart is fragile, and I don’t want to get hurt. I’m also afraid that this fear will make me push away a good woman whose intentions with me are nothing but pure and genuine.
I don’t know how to spot a good woman because I’ve seen wolves covered in sheep’s clothing.
Most good women I encounter often become my friends. Romantically speaking, I haven’t been with someone good, yet.
I know there are so many great women out there, one or more being my soulmates (I’ve heard from somewhere that you can have more than one soulmate), but I just can’t help but have this subconscious belief that I may attract the complete opposite of what I am since I’ve seen it happen quite a lot in real life. I can’t shake off the belief that people are too good to be true.
This has nothing to do with a lack of self-confidence.
Please do tell me in the comments how I can reprogram my subconscious mind to overcome my fear of attracting the wrong person and thus attract the type of person I want. I could really use your help.
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