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Stories from an Unconventional Life
A journey of self-discovery
I’ve been reflecting on why I don’t talk much about my achievements or the things I’m proud of. Growing up, other kids said that talking about myself was “bragging,” so I kept quiet. I already felt like I was different — I didn’t need to add “bragger” to the list!
After my first big trip around the world, I came home four years later bursting with stories, but I quickly realised that not everyone could connect with them. People would listen politely to one or two, but if the stories didn’t feel relatable, they’d drift off or change the subject. I get it, but again I became quiet.
That was my first nudge to understand that, as we grow, our paths can diverge from those around us. I noticed even more parts of myself that I couldn’t share — like seeing ghosts, talking to guides, or working with energy. Sure, I had a few friends who were into those things, but for the most part, I remained quiet.
As I’ve grown older, I’ve stopped hiding. These days, I embrace all of me — even if it makes some people think I’m weird, lost, or just nuts for wandering the world and talking to spirit. Their opinions are none of my business. I still pick and choose who to tell what stories. I think it’s unfair to expect everyone to listen to everything! I mean, I am insanely grateful…
