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Is Compromisation A Weakness
How Far You Agree With Me?
Accepting and compromising - just hearing these two words sometimes shows helplessness and several stress marks on our faces.
But why the stress mark, why do we feel this helplessness? Is compromise really a weakness?
As the question arises, let's see where its position is in relation to parameters.
We are human
Bonds are at the core of our creation. It is not possible for us to walk alone.
Many of you claim to be able to go it alone; But can you really do that? No, you can't at all.
You may be living alone day after day without a life partner or a family.
But are you really walking alone? No, you have to live together with many people in the society.
Do the characteristics of each of those people match your taste? Some may match your taste mostly, some may not match at all, and you may partially accept some people from that point of view.
In every aspect of our lives, we are tied to different relationships in different ways.
Since each person has different characteristics, there is no change except to accept and adapt to the differences.
It is a very common and normal process of life. But how much that adaptation or compromisation should be is a matter for us to know and understand.
Did you know that over-accommodating is also unfair in some cases?
Maybe you all know one thing, the one who does injustice and the one who tolerates injustice are both equally guilty! Let's explain a little more clearly.
Think, your husband or wife is a very short-tempered person. He suddenly became very angry and behaved very badly. Say things that hurt your heart, respect. You are accepting his short-tempered behavior day after day in order to sustain the relationship. Because of your acceptance, your compromise, his unfair behavior is increasing day by day. However, he doesn't even understand that you are sacrificing to save the relationship.
