If You Stop Having Sex With Your Man, Don’t Be Surprised When He Starts Having Sex With Someone Else

This should be common sense. Men need sex. If he has sex with you then he’s happy. If you’re too tired or just don’t feel like it, regularly, he will probably start having sex with someone else.

Men need sex around 1–2 times per week. If maybe once or twice you aren’t in the mood, that’s fine, but if that denial of intimacy becomes a habit… watch out.

Last night I heard this commedian talking about how he’s been together with his girlfriend for 6 months, and she’s given up on sex entirely. He says she will only have sex with him once a month, if that, and her attitude about it is pretty lazy too. No man ever wants that. It makes us feel unloved, unwanted, and undesirable.

If you aren’t feeling it, be assertive. Tell him what you would like for him to do in bed. If you aren’t feeling attracted to him, break up with him. Even if a man loves you and he’s married to you, he is not going to be happy in a sexless relationship. Would you be?