The Dilemma of Parent Shaming

TL;DR: Parent shaming, something I’ve studied and observed for YEARS, is prevalent in our society and often fueled by societal expectations and amplified by technology. It leads to emotional turmoil and undermines holistic, healthy parenting. Shame-Proof Parenting™ offers a resilient and compassionate approach, advocating for understanding and support over judgment. Combining insights from various sources, we can advocate for a societal shift towards more empathetic and supportive parenting, contributing to healthier, happier families.

This is an image of several hands with pointing fingers encircle three anxious-looking brains on a coral background, suggesting a theme of blame or shame directed at one’s mental state.

A Snapshot of Judgment

Years ago, I wrote an article for LA Parent. I opened the article with an interaction between myself and a colleague who pointed out a mother struggling with her toddler’s tantrum, remarking, “A parent who lets their child act like that without reprimanding them is definitely raising an asshole.” This harsh judgment opened the discussion on the present and often debilitating issue of parent shaming. We live in a paradoxical world condemning parents for being too strict while shaming them for perceived gentleness. This incident was not isolated but a reflection of a broader societal trend where quick judgments overshadow understanding and support. As we move through this piece, I’ll revisit that article and share my updated insights since then.