Unlocking the True Essence of Parenting: The PID Model Approach

Dr. Mercedes Samudio, LCSW
AfroNerd Insights
Published in
7 min readMar 15, 2024

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TL;DR: Think parenting’s just a 9-to-5 with diaper changes and homework checks? Think again! Enter the PID Model, your guide to understanding parenting as the ultimate identity glow-up. It’s not about filling out job applications; it’s about filling lives with love, (un)(re)learning, and a dash of chaos. This isn’t your typical “how-to-parent” spiel — it’s a revolution in empathy and support, tailor-made for the superhero role of a lifetime. *Sorry I have to add my AfroNerd in*

This is an iamge of a mother and child, illuminated by a warm, ethereal glow, share a tender moment as they sit on the ground, while a small, attentive dog sits by their side.

The Paradigm Shift

Parenting transcends the conventional notion of a job; it’s a profound journey of identity development. This transformation challenges folks to view the world anew, preparing them not just for the responsibility of self, but for nurturing the next generation. The Parental Identity Development Model™ (PID Model) emerges as a beacon for professionals and parents alike, advocating a shift in perspective to truly support family growth.

Shame Proof Parenting as Developmental Support

Shame Proof Parenting is an empowering approach that supports parents on their journey of developing their parental identity by fostering a non-judgmental, empathetic environment. It champions the idea that there’s no one-size-fits-all method to parenting, encouraging parents to…

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Dr. Mercedes Samudio, LCSW
AfroNerd Insights

Clinician, Researcher, author of Shame-Proof Parenting, AfroNerd, Hufflepuff, & MCU mythologist shifting the narrative for Black mental health