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Every Man Knows Exactly What He’s Doing

Understanding Emotional Neglect

Mocha Moma
AfroSapiophile
Published in
3 min readOct 27, 2024

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When you feel unloved or insignificant in your relationship, those emotions aren’t rooted in insecurity or overthinking — they are your reality. Emotional neglect doesn’t happen by accident; it’s a clear indicator of where a man’s heart lies.

An angry man who is tired of hearing about how you feel emotionally neglected. Photo by engin akyurt on Unsplash

If you constantly question your place in his life, it’s not because you are misunderstanding the situation. You feel out of place because you have no place in his life. When you feel neglected, it’s because he’s emotionally detached. Men invest their time, energy, and affection in what they care about. If he’s not investing in you, it’s because his heart isn’t with you.

The Fear of Letting Go

Many women choose to ignore the red flags that scream emotional detachment. Why? The fear of starting over. The idea of being alone or having to rebuild a new life can feel overwhelming, leading many to stay in unhealthy relationships far longer than they should.

It’s not uncommon for men to subtly withdraw, use tactics like emotional neglect or avoidance, and even become more distant over time. This isn’t accidental — it’s a tactic used by some to avoid direct confrontation while hoping you’ll be the one to end things. Yet, many women stay, clinging to the hope that things will…

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AfroSapiophile
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Published in AfroSapiophile

AfroSapiophile is a hub for critical thinking and analysis pertaining to civil rights, human rights, systemic racism and sexism across politics, entertainment, and history.

Mocha Moma
Mocha Moma

Written by Mocha Moma

Award-winning poet. Author of Soul Not For Sale-The Poetic Publication. The Love Poet speaking out against Unhealthy Culture and its generational damage.

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