Logic Can’t Win A Different Soul

Don’t let your big ego ruin your relationship

Me Wandering Mind
a Few Words
2 min readJan 5, 2021

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Don’t let your big ego ruin your relationship
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I’m simply a person of logic.

That means I’d like to be logical in every single problem, from the way I deal with my personal ones to discussions and arguments with other people.

So, people who have illogical words and actions would strike me with a negative impression.

But I was all wrong.

I realize that it is all about your soul, about who you are.

When you are a totally different mind, your logic is different.

Everyone has their own logic, has their own way to manage their life, so things will not work out between those who are opposite to each other.

That’s the reason why when it comes to unimportant arguments, I tend to stay away if there are signs that the partner sounds illogical to me, which means I sound the same way to him.

I know that if one of us is trying to win the conversation, the conflict will get bitter, and no matter who wins it, one thing that will be lost without a doubt is the relationship.

And it’s really bad if that’s your parents, your siblings, or your close friends.

However, you should be cautious about classifying conversations. It can be a discussion to give the others sound advice.

At that time, your logic is important, because given that some conflicts could be formed, it’s just temporary, and your logic is what your partner is looking for in the end.

Your logic is your own self, but it should be shown at the right time with the right people. Remember that your big ego can win words but can lose a soul as well. Ask yourself which one matters to you, winning or your relationship.

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Me Wandering Mind
a Few Words

I’m Me Wandering Mind. I love the way how life is changing day by day, making life balancing is not only challenging but also interesting.