The Ultimate Relationship Advice You’ll Ever Need

It’s not what or how much you text them.

Michaela Grek
a Few Words
Published in
3 min readDec 7, 2019

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There is a lot of dating advice out there that doesn’t make sense.

— “Always make sure you’re the one to text them less. So if they send you two texts, you send them one. And if they send you one text, you send one-word answers.”

— “Appear busy, don’t text them right away.”

— “Use reverse psychology on them.”

Articles, books, blogs, movies and videos all based on the concept that there is a way to date someone. A correct combination of texts, words and behaviours that will make someone fall in love with us. All without losing your power.

BULLLLLSHIT

This advice is based on a flawed premise that love is a game and people are prizes to be won.

People are not objects with some awesome features.

Just be yourself

Have you ever heard of this ol’ time saying? You may have just rolled your eyes looking for ‘better’ less cliche-sounding advice. But hey, this is the only true way.

Think about it.

If someone’s to fall in love with you they’ll fall in love with someone in front of them. They’ll fall in love with you…

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Michaela Grek
a Few Words

Writer & Health Coach from Slovakia 🇸🇰 | ACE-certified PT & Nutrition Specialist | I help women become healthier on the outside & the inside | Sex convos 🌊