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Healing Codependency By Reckoning With Savior-ism.

We aren’t here to save each other.

There is no room for savior-ism in authentic love. Because when one person is trying to save the other, a hierarchy is established. Someone has the cookies and someone else doesn’t. The one with the cookies can feel important and meaningful because they can be the hero in the story.




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