Punishment Never Corrects a Child
Yes, you pave the way for his evil by beating him.
In my school, approximately eight hundred students are enrolled (from kindergarten to high school). One percent or more (but not 1.5 percent) are those whose objectives are not to study at all. These children (seniors) try to destroy the school environment and even the teachers ignore them due to their continuous misbehaves. Every other day, their complaints are registered into the complaint’s register. This isn’t just a problem for these children. When their parents are called, they do not attend the school phone. Even if they get a call from another phone number, they talk with great frustration and do not consider the child as their responsibility.
Approximately 1% of schoolchildren do not intend to study. They disturb the school environment. Every second day, their complaints are registered at the complaint’s register.
In every possible way, I called these parents to the school, met them and also met the teachers of their classes. Some points became clear to me after meeting them.
These children are severely beaten at home
These children have been severely beaten at home (to correct and prevent them from going astray). As a result of this beating, the relationship of respect between children and parents has been deteriorating. Of course, this veil has been lifted by the parents themselves.
Children beaten at home lead to bad relationships.
In this situation, no relationship of respect exists
Because there is no relationship of respect between son and father. Being beaten is no longer a problem for them or he has grown up and can react in such cases. Thus, he is completely free from his home. The parents don’t want to confront them at all.
Being beaten is no longer a problem for children, growing up in such a situation.
Such children expect a home-like environment at school
When these youngsters arrive at school, they also anticipate a homey atmosphere. However, every student in school is required to follow a set of rules. Because there is no punishment, a respectful relationship still exists, and he spends the school hour in control.
Such children expect a home-like environment at school.
Such children are no more in parents control
I met some of these children's parents. One child is still in the middle section. His father was telling me that he is violently beaten at home but he still does not give up his habits and bad company. Another father, whose son is in the secondary section, says his child has been subjected to severe punishment at home. He added that his child is young now and he can't control him. The father couldn’t even speak in front of his son. The child who cooperated in the absence of parents became aggressive in the presence of the father. There are hundreds of such pages that open every day.
These children are no longer under the control of the parents and even the parents avoid them.
All of this shows that a child is never corrected through violence. Yes, you are paving the way for his evil by beating him. He makes this evil his destination instead of making higher goals. There may be millions of methods to protect children from negative influences in society, but violence is not one of them. It is like snatching the last chance of progress from the child, which his teacher might be able to help him with.