Maybe It’s Time to Get a Little “Nasty”

Expression takes different forms

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I’ve been called “nasty” before.

I’ve been described as rude or mean for telling my truth in ways that made someone else squirm a little. I’ve also been ignored for speaking my mind too quietly, and for being too subtle. Sometimes I’ve even muffled myself in order to protect someone else’s feelings. It never turned…




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