These 4 Problems can break a Marriage Performed without Kundali Matching
For most people in love, the prospect of matching kundalis seems meaningless, as they have anyway decided to live their life with each other. The feelings of mutual attraction and happiness with each other are so strong that they feel kundali matching is a great obstacle in their union.Let’s say you went ahead and got married anyway, here are 4 problems that can come if marriage is performed without kundali matching
1. Incompatibility in nature
Sometimes after marriage prediction without kundali matching, people soon start getting irritated and angry as their natures are very different in practical life. They start finding faults in each other, and lose peace of mind. It is possible because of incompatibility that marriage can end after 3 months or even after 30 years!
How kundali matching helps in ensuring compatibility:
In astrology the koota or clusters under which the compatibility is seen are called as follows. The compatibility score is calculated on all these parameters.
• Varna
• Vasya/Vashya
• Tara/Dina
• Yoni
• Grah Maitri/Rasyadipati
• Gana
• Rashi or Bhakoota
• Nadi
Rashis of each individual are grouped according to their tattwa or elements. For example, Agni (fire) and Jal (water) rashi are incompatible whereas Agni (fire) and Vayu (wind) are compatible. So, Leo being a agni sign would be incompatible with scorpio which is a water sign but more of a personality match with gemini which is a wind sign.
Kundali matching ensures that there is deep compatibility in the nature of both people, so that they can face all the good times and bad times through mutual understanding and cooperation.
2. Lack of children
After a few years of marriage in Indian society, the question of child birth prediction, and this is a very sensitive and delicate issue. Some people may not want children at all, some are very eager for children and some are not able to have children due to various issues. Not having the same views regarding children and also not being able to have children can sometimes damage the marriage also.
How kundali matching helps in ensuring child related happiness:
A very weak, debilitated, badly positioned lagna lord for either man or woman, along with no beneficiary planets such as Jupiter to influence it, can mean denial of a child. This is best to know beforehand.
3. Lack of wealth and good fortune
Financial stability is critical, as we need money to fulfill our desires in life. There is no material happiness without adequate amount of money. Having a decent bank-balance means a stress-free life.
There may be severe ego clashes in a marriage if educational levels are very far apart. The level of understanding and communication with each other also becomes frustrating.
How kundali matching helps in ensuring good fortune:
2nd house signifies the accumulation of wealth, 9th house signifies one’s luck, fate and fortune, 10th house indicates profession and 11th house is symbolic of gains and success. During kundali matching also, study of both marriage horoscopes can reveal if either spouse would bring in wealth and good fortune in the relationship.
4. Critical Health problems
Chronic and long-term health problems can severely impact a married life and its quality of happiness. The bad horoscope of one life partner negatively influences the other person also, so they also have to bear the ill-effects and influence.
How kundali matching helps in ensuring good health for both partners:
These factors show ill-effects on health and should become a concern
When malefic planets are posited in houses like 6th (disease), 8th (longevity) and 12th (death)
When bad planets occupy the signs — Virgo, Scorpio and Pisces
When bad planets occupy the ascendant
When sun, moon and ascendant — all three are afflicted
Do pay careful attention to these 4 areas. Kundali milan is a way of predicting the future of your married life and one needs to take precaution and practical decisions as these have a lifetime impact.
