How Many Sexual Partners Are Too Many Sexual Partners?

The Mathematics of Pleasure Has No Limits

I’m 35 and I’ve lost count of my sexual partners. And you know what? I’m not ashamed of it at all. Every encounter, every experience, every orgasm has contributed to making me the sexually confident and fulfilled woman I am today.

Society still tries to dictate how many partners a woman “should” have. But who defines that number? Why is it “the more the better” for men, while we’re supposed to have a limit? What bullshit is that?

Photo By Viktoria Slowikowska

I love sex.

I love exploring my body and others’ bodies.

I’ve tried practically everything — from casual encounters to orgies, including swinging and threesomes. And each experience has taught me something new about myself and my sexuality.

I remember perfectly the first time I went to a swing club. The initial nervousness quickly transformed into pure excitement seeing so many naked bodies, so many people fucking without shame or judgment. That sexual freedom was intoxicating.

And threesomes… The sensation of having two men or a man and a woman giving me pleasure simultaneously is simply indescribable. Every touch, every kiss, every penetration multiplies into waves of pleasure that make me lose track of…