In Colombia They Speak, In the West They Manipulate

Why Latin American relationships are more honest

I slept with a Colombian who told me in the first hour that he only wanted sex.

No filters. No games.

No pretty stories about meeting my family or future plans. I was so shocked by the damn honesty that I ended up giving in to temptation.

I spent years deciphering enigmatic texts from Western men. “Let’s watch Netflix” means he wants to stick his dick inside you but doesn’t have the courage to say it. “Let’s take it slow” translates to “I’m eating other chicks while keeping you in the drawer.”

And the classic “I’m not ready for a relationship right now” which actually means “I’m not ready for a relationship WITH YOU.”

This is the bullshit game we submit to in Western cultures. Nobody has the balls to say what they really want.

In Latin America?

The fucking truth comes out right away. Raw and naked.

I met a Colombian woman who told me that when she met her American boyfriend for the first time, she said “I want a man who will support me and give me a comfortable life.”

The guy was shocked.

In his world, women pretend to be independent while secretly looking for a provider. In her head? She was just telling the truth.