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Where Does Sex Begin?
Do you have an answer for that?
Do you think sex starts when you take your clothes off?
When you touch someone’s body?
When there’s penetration?
If you think that, you’re starting the story halfway through.
Sex starts way before any physical contact.
It starts in the mind, in the unspoken words, in the look that lingers longer than it should. It starts when you decide you want someone not just their body, but the whole person.
And here’s the first inconvenient truth: most of us don’t even realize when that happens.
In my view, sex begins when you stop pretending you don’t have desires.
When you admit to yourself that you want to fuck, that you want to be touched, that you want to feel pleasure.
But it’s more than that.
Real sex the kind that leaves a mark, the kind that changes you begins when you choose to be vulnerable with someone.
And vulnerability isn’t about taking your clothes off anyone can do that. Vulnerability is showing who you are when no one’s watching.
