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Why Do We Fuck?
Can you answer this?
We fuck for a thousand different reasons, and none of them are as simple as they seem. Procreation? Please.
If that were the case, nobody would give oral.
Pleasure? Obviously, but masturbation takes care of that more efficiently. Love? Ridiculous — some of the worst sex of my life was with people I deeply loved. The complexity of our sexual motivations goes far beyond these superficial justifications we use to rationalize our desires.
Each sexual encounter carries layers upon layers of psychological, emotional, and social meanings that we don’t even fully understand ourselves. Our sexuality is a complex puzzle formed by past experiences, traumas, fantasies, cultural conditioning, and primal biological impulses.
We’re animals desperate for connection in an increasingly digital and antiseptic world. We seek in sex those rare moments of total authenticity, when all masks fall away and we’re naked not just in body, but in soul. In a universe dominated by superficial interactions through screens, intimate physical contact has become one of the last frontiers of genuine human experience.
It’s in sex that we find that moment of absolute vulnerability, where there’s no way to pretend, filter, or edit reality. Our frantic search for sexual connections reflects a…
