An Amygdala
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An Amygdala

Deciding to Love Yourself Is Just the Beginning

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It wasn’t until my 20s that I even entertained the notion that I should love myself. According to my definition, love was something you gave to others, and the way you showed love was through self-sacrifice and concealing your pain.

Up until that point, I had learned how to love from psychologically unwell people trying to keep their reputations from getting sullied in a sick…




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