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Love as a Verb: The Dynamic Principle of Action

Andrew J. Mair
My Sleeve Where It Should Be
5 min readAug 2, 2024

Love is not a static concept. It is not something one possesses or stores away like a treasure in a chest. Instead, love is a verb — a principle of action, ever dynamic, constantly expressed through deeds, words, and choices. It is something experienced, lived, and demonstrated. Love is not just a feeling; it is what we do and how we choose to interact with the world and those we care about.

When someone truly loves another, that love is shown through actions. It is manifested in the small, everyday gestures — a gentle smile, a warm hug, a comforting word, or an act of service. Love is saying “I love you” not just with words but with everything you do. It is the decision to support someone even when it is difficult, to forgive when it is challenging, to stand by someone’s side when they feel alone, and to laugh and cry with them through life’s highs and lows.

Love is not passive or indifferent. It cannot remain unexpressed or devoid of action because such a state is not love at all. Love must be given and received, shared and celebrated. It requires us to actively engage, to make decisions that reflect care, compassion, and understanding. Love is also about knowing when to act and when to refrain, recognizing that sometimes the greatest expression of love is found in patience, silence, or the gentle release of letting go.

The essence of love can often be seen most clearly in the simple, unconditional actions of our animal companions. A dog, for instance, may not speak words of love, but their actions express a deep and abiding affection. Through wagging tails, excited greetings, quiet companionship, and unwavering loyalty, a dog shows love every day without uttering a single word. They embody the principle that love is something you do — a continuous, living act that needs no language to be understood.

In every moment of connection, whether it is through a shared smile, a helping hand, or a simple act of kindness, love is present. It is the choice to care, to be present, to support, and to cherish. Love is the force that moves us to action, that calls us to step beyond ourselves and into the lives of others with compassion and empathy.

To love is to live in a state of action, ever mindful of the ways we can express that love to those around…

My Sleeve Where It Should Be
My Sleeve Where It Should Be

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Heartfelt Reflections, Humorous Insights, and Personal Stories — Author of “Tales Of A Paperboy_A Christmas Story” — http://andrewjmair.com

Andrew J. Mair
Andrew J. Mair

Written by Andrew J. Mair

http://andrewjmair.com — Author of “Tales Of A Paperboy_A Christmas Story.”

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