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Facebook Is Killing Me

Or why ego plays a big role in our lives

Facebook Is Killing Me

Or why ego plays a big role in our lives


egotistic: characteristic of those having an inflated idea of their own importance.

I think Facebook is killing me. Something that has been on my mind a lot lately is the success and greatness (or perceived) of the lives of those around me in comparison to my own. So when deciding to brainstorm this thought further into a post, I came to realize that many of these separate, unique thoughts have one thing in common — Facebook plays a role in all of them.

But before I continue, this topic reminds me of a line from “Bravado” by Lorde:

Cause I was raised up
To be admired to be noticed

I don’t have stats on me, but it’s well known that many of us (especially those reading this post) check Facebook constantly throughout the day. Even if only for a minute, I’m constantly taking a break from my work to scroll through Facebook update after update. But the funny thing is that the amount of times I find a status update to be of importance or tangible value is quite rare. I have to believe that checking Facebook has become a habit ingrained in my head, sort of as a way to “veg out.”

Another well known inevitability of Facebook is that people finely tune and monitor how their profiles reflect their outward personalities. More often than not they’re not quite accurate representations, but that’s for another post. I don’t have a problem with this. I don’t even have a problem with all the junk “Comment if you like the red Power Ranger” posts. My problem is with all the vapid, egotistical posts that litter our feeds on a daily basis.

How often do you see people posting status updates about the hardships in their lives? Scrolling through several different friends’ (“friends”) profiles, the majority of status updates that are not passive posts, like sharing articles or music, are updates about positive events and changes in ones life. Now, it’s not to say that this a bad thing. Checking your Facebook feed only to see sad and depressing stories all day wouldn't be very enjoyable. That being said, it’s important when checking Facebook to remember that everything you see has gone through a filter. What will gain likes, what people will find interesting, etc.

It’s important to keep this in mind because if you don’t, you’ll start to feel like your life does not amount to much in comparison. This is far from the truth. Everyone goes through ups and downs at different points in their lives — nobody has it as easy as it may seem. Everyone measures success in different ways, but the climb from the bottom is almost always the same. What’s important is that you’re honest, humble (overused but still applies), and happy. Because at the end of the day all we want in life is happiness.

Or maybe I should just check Facebook less.