“The men are going to look anyway.”

Lisa Martens
“Are you okay?”
2 min readApr 6, 2024

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Photo by Olivia Bauso on Unsplash

I took a dance performance workshop recently and one piece of advice stuck out in my head: If you want to get booked for events more, make sure the kids and women are happy.

“The men are going to look anyway.”

Of course, this advice is talking about cishet men. But it immediately rang true, and also ran counter to a lot of what I had been taught.

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Lisa Martens
“Are you okay?”

A remote working Latina. Storytelling is a calling. Read, support, and more here: https://linktr.ee/lisathewriter