Yes, You Can Totally Disappoint a Virgin.

You just don’t want them to confidently speak for themselves.

Lisa Martens
“Are you okay?”
3 min readAug 9, 2021

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Photo by Debashis RC Biswas on Unsplash

It’s 2021 but there are still people floating around who think that if a cishet woman uses sex toys or has multiple partners, she will be somehow “ruined” for that one “special” guy.

To start with, this is all very sexist and hetero-normative to begin with, but it’s…

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Lisa Martens
“Are you okay?”

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