Sep 16, 2022
2 min read
“You’re Single? Who Hurt You?”
It’s more like I hurt myself by trying to force myself to be a girlfriend.
It’s common for people to tell the perpetually single that their single-ness is a problem, a trauma to be fixed. “Who hurt you?” is a common question.
While this might be true in some cases, to me it felt dismissive. And honestly, I think it was the other way…
