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No, you don’t need to forgive those who’ve hurt you and made you feel like shit

Photo by Trym Nilsen on Unsplash


Factors and consequences

Sometimes, when someone experiences an offense that happened, it’s not always known who’s responsible for the offense since it’s hard to figure out if someone was directly or indirectly responsible or not, because the factors connected to the offense are crucial to take into consideration when thinking about whether or not a person wants to consider opening the question of forgiveness. However, this isn’t what forgiveness is actually about.

An Autistic perspective on the concept of ‘forgiveness’

Why forgiveness can be a difficult thing to do? How can it be confusing?

‘Self-love’ and its perfectionist, neoliberal bullshit

Resistance towards forgiveness itself




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