Do Expectations hurt?

Long Man
ashishtells
Published in
2 min readOct 15, 2017

The worse part of life is expectations, yes, expectations hurt, yet we demand them, we wish to have them in our life.

Either it’s your personal or professional life, we are emotionally incorrect, logically correct, we understand each & everything yet we refuse to accept the reality.

If you feed a dog daily & one day you go barehanded, the dog will emotionally hurt, it will take him time to understand that you have right to refuse.

I have a friend, to whom i never refused to meet, whenever or wherever, but one day I was tired, so i said i couldn’t make it that day, we would hangout the next day. Rejection hurted him as he started talking abusive then said sorry for his behaviour, WTF, we all have our lives, & we have to leave the dependency. Normally expectations hurt, so have a habit to say a firm no sometimes, it will make balance.

On the love life of people, this is the main reason of conflicts, just because they expect their counterpart will fulfill their expectation, but they fail, as a human being expectation is the worse thing, even don’t expect from God, he may be busy with other’s expectations. The only person you can have expectation is you.

I have one expectation of having No expectation. But having No expectation is also a king of expectation. May be this post is a certain kind of expectation. All depends on you.

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Long Man
ashishtells

Guzar gya woh ek waqt, Guzar gya woh ek shaqsh, nhi guzri teri yaadein, Mai tujhko yaad krta hu, Naa koi milne ki khawaish, Naa tujhko paane ki koi zidd, magar