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How Self-Image Determines Your Success

Uncomplicated Ways to Build Your Belief in Yourself

First of all, I did not really have any self-awareness after losing my parents at the age of 10years old. My view of life became distorted because so much drama came into my personal space. If I had to do it all over again, I would not want to survive it. It really is a miracle that I am sane. Only God could sustain and maintain me. I have always been an introvert and rather antisocial so it is easy for me to take care of myself. After, my failed relationship in my marriage, I realized my blind spots of my human flaws and my deficits in connecting effectively. I imagine if I had not gotten married, I probably would still been blind to my deficits, regardless of why, or how I just needed to be aware and acknowledge it. I took steps to improve my emotional intelligence because relationships are the keys to happiness. Studying emotional intelligence and building my self-awareness confirmed that self-image determines my success in every arena of my life. Life is a journey. It’s a culture of progress not perfection.

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Sometimes, it is wise to reflect and measure your progress. I remember episodes in my life but I do not have the same emotions and thoughts attached to the memories because God has graced me. His grace is sufficient for me. I mostly only dream wonderful happy dreams with family. It really is true that He redeemed from destruction, spiritual death, sickness and disease and lack and poverty. I have very much to be grateful for. It really is true for me that the life i live in the flesh, I live by the faith of the Son of God who loved me and who gave Himself for me. This is my only explanation for my sanity. Everyone has a story. When I got lost in His story that is when my story became irrevelant. Enjoy the journey, embrace the goal; because He is the Alpha and Omega. I am just passing through this foreign land. Waiting patiently for that glorious day where all chosen creation rejoice for everlasting without anymore suffering.

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We are spirits possessing souls and living in physical bodies. God is a spirit. The way He talks to us is in our spirits; He provides guidance and direction to our spirits in the same way we use candles for illumination. “The spirit of a man is the lamp of the Lord, Searching all the inner depths of his heart” (Proverbs 20:27, NKJV). Without God’s voice speaking into our lives, we’d be fumbling around in the dark.

How do you see yourself?

What do you believe about yourself?

How do you feel about yourself?

What do you think about yourself?

Are you a victim?

Are you victorious?

Are you an overcomer?

Are you a winner?

Do you believe in yourself?

Are you building your belief in yourself?

Did you know that all things are possible with God?

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How Self-Image Determines Your Success

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A collection of my stories of glorious victories superceding obstacles, trials and tribulations by the Creator of the Universe whom I live by the faith of His Son who loved me and gave Himself for me.

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Rachel Lee White

Marketer who is a Published Author, Motivational Speaker, Consultant